Androgynization of America

It has become all to clear to me that the feminazis have one goal: to thoroughly asexualize America. Though most women wear makeup, their personalities have been masculinized; though most men wear pants, it's become "wise" to "get in touch w/ your feminine side." Women are expected to be superwomen: hold down a fulltime job, raise the kids, cook the food, do the laundry, clean the house, etc.; all while the man can come home after work to crash in the La-Z-Boy w/ a beer & a remote -- or stay late at work for a fling w/ the secretary. (After all, men are pigs, right? so what's the use trying to change them?) ...
With all this in mind, can we really be so sure ultrafeminists (the radical activists) have women's interests in mind? Keep in mind many of these activists are lesbians and/or career women who don't plan on ever having children: I doubt they really care about the plans/desires of married/single women w/ children.